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Old 09-03-2001, 03:07 AM   #1
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what do you ladies say

i have not been with a woman that will swallow yet. now i dont know if that is my preference or hers. its been sort of a fantacy of mine but i think it would be degrading i guess to her. i love to have sex (alot) but i couldnt see myself just baring down on her just for that. i want to please her in different sex positions and lots of oral sex but how do i approach this, do i just non-chailantly (did i spell that right) place it in her mouth or what?

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Old 09-03-2001, 05:24 AM   #2
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Re: what do you ladies say

Communication is the key to really good sex. NO, don't force anything on her as that can not only be degrading but can ruin the relationship. Some girls don't want to do oral sex at all and certainly not all of them will swallow....and what difference does that make? As a couple the two of you have to decide what is OK and what is not and I can assure you, things will be much better that way. Good luck!

Old 09-03-2001, 01:20 PM   #3
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Re: what do you ladies say

You just have to ask. It's one of those things that if you aren't in a place in the relationship that you can talk about it you shouldn't be doing it.

Why would it be degrading? You go down on her don't you? If you don't then you have no right to ask her. If you do then you are ingesting her juices when you do so why shouldn't it work both ways.

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