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Old 01-31-2002, 11:10 PM   #1
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packerfan4ever HB User
Men--I need advice!

ok...I am an attractive 26 y/o female. My husband and I used to have sex ALL THE TIME, and now it's down to 1 time every 3 months. What is going on? How can you go from humping like rabbits to hardly anything? We are so young...I don't know how much more I can handle. I have talked with him about this EVERY possible way--I was kind, and gentle. Then another time I was ****** and depressed. I NEED sex more than once every three months. Do you have any ideas on what could be wrong? Or ideas on what I can do to "spice" things up? THANKS

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Old 02-01-2002, 07:51 AM   #2
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Angelwings HB User
Re: Men--I need advice!

Hey Packerfan, Teehee you come here too?? I posted something on the other place for you. Yes, Packerfan I can relate somewhat. Not as bad as you but I have a much higher sex drive than my hubby <IMG SRC="">. And when we do, it's so quick. Lucky I get orgasim fast too. 5 or 10 min. is the max. <IMG SRC=""> I wish it could be longer. We are working on that. Packer there are lots of things you could do to try and help him. lol. <IMG SRC="">

Old 02-01-2002, 09:11 AM   #3
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Re: Men--I need advice!

Well,has he had a chancge at work?? Has he started a new medication?? There are a number of things it could be. You could tell him you are concerned over his health since he had this decrease in sex drive and ask him to to see his doctor. You could even go along to make sure his doctor knows exactly why he is there. You can get his hormone levels tested to see if they are off.
To spice things up you can try surprising him with notes leading to your bedroom. Or role playing,acting out a fantasy. There are tons of books to add some spice. You can go to a bookstore and look through a few to see what you like. You dont really have to buy them unless you want. You can get a hotel room and have him meet your there during lunch one day or for a weekend getaway.

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