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Old 07-22-2001, 10:29 PM   #1
sunflower sarah
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guys i need ur advice

<IMG SRC=""> hey i am 18 and i have been with this guy for a few weeks now we havent had sex yet cos he is interstate at the moment but we have talked about it on the phone and we both cant wait till he comes back. I have only had sex 2 times b4 and it was not very good cos i didnt really know wat i was doing, my new boyfriend has had sex so many times he cant count them wich kinda worries me cos i want to make our sex the best hes ever had, so wat i am asking u guys is how can i turn him on, wat can i do to him that is definatly gonna feel good. any advice will be great but i kinda need it fast cos he wil be home in 2 weeks <IMG SRC=""> <IMG SRC=""> <IMG SRC=""> <IMG SRC=""> ohh and if u know any good websites that can tell me anything please tell me what they r

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Old 07-23-2001, 05:01 AM   #2
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Re: guys i need ur advice

If I were you I would wait to have sex with this guy. If he has loved and cared for all the women he has been with so much that he can't even rember them all where do you think you stand? Just because he is telling you that you are different from all the other girls he has been with does not make that the truth. It sounds like he might be playing you.

Old 07-23-2001, 05:18 AM   #3
sunflower sarah
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Re: guys i need ur advice

its not like that he has been with only 1 other girl and they were together for 2 years and in 2 years they had alot of sex thats wat i am worried about, i just wanna be better than her so any advice please <IMG SRC="">

Old 07-23-2001, 12:59 PM   #4
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Re: guys i need ur advice

I'm the type of guy that loves to talk sunflower. If your boyfriend is like me,talk to him about it. That alone may turn him on. You can ask him what does he like, or while you are playing around ask him "does this feel good"? Ask him to guide you.

He knows what feels good to him, but you don't. If we were to tell you what feels good to us, and you were to try it on him he may not respond as we would. All guys are different.

Alot of the fun of sex is learning what feels good, what works and what doesn't. If this guy is who you hope him to be, none of this is going to be a problem. If you both go into it with an open mind, and are wanting to have fun, then everything will probably work out.

If he knows in advance you aren't as knowlegdable as he is, he isn't expecting you to know it all. He may even take control and show you how wonderful it can be.

My best advice is just allow it to happen, don't worry about it at all. Talk to him about it as much as you feel comfortable with. Learn as much as you can and make the next time even better for the both of you. Use protection and have fun.

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