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Old 09-19-2001, 03:25 PM   #1
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first post, help appreciated

myself and a girl named Alex just fell in love and we havent "yet" been intimate (Oral or Direct) my problem is even when we are together, kiss and cuddle etc i dont get erect.

ive not been with a girl before (im 18), its not to the state that i cant get hard at all, i can get moderately erect when i take a few minutes and `stroke` myself.

so i want to know is their anything i can do for myself to `rise` to the occasion when it does come.

Should i maybe lay off masturbating and let my body maybe get suprised/excited when it happens, or the total opposite and masturbate more?

sorry if it sounds silly but its really eating away at me inside and i dont want to disapoint alex. i was even considering trying to get my hands on some viagra and to pop half/a tablet in my gob before she notices

(p.s im sorry this posted twice by accident (in general forum) and i cant delete this one)<p>[This message has been edited by s_leeds (edited 09-19-2001).]

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Old 09-19-2001, 04:57 PM   #2
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PharmacyMan HB User
Re: first post, help appreciated

I can't say what might be happening to you (others on the board might though). But I would go to GNC and pick up some herbal pills like MEGA MEN, ect. Their really effective, and their a natural alternative to the presciption med viagra.

Old 09-19-2001, 09:39 PM   #3
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Re: first post, help appreciated

Perfectly normal behaviour under the circumstances...Just relax and get to know your girl...The more you get to know her, and share time with her, the more relaxed you will become...Many people go through this, its called "performance anxiety"....Remember safe sex, birth control, condoms, ect...If you think your old enough to have sex, certainly you are mature enough to do it in a responsible and safe manner...No viagra, your way too young. Take care, good luck.

Old 09-20-2001, 01:09 AM   #4
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s_leeds HB User
Re: first post, help appreciated

thanks i feel a slight more relaxed now, yesterday me and alex got very involved and i thought that was going to be the day, but her sister knocked on the door. so out of panic i posted this

in the time being should i stop masturbating myself? im worried my bodies got too used to it and just doesnt care anymore.
i used to get erections so much i had to hide them during the day at college etc
(this was 2 years ago)
i seem to now wake up with one, which i heard, could mean my hormones are out of balance? any rememdy.

thank you again, everyones words mean so much.

Old 09-20-2001, 06:39 AM   #5
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Marco HB User
Re: first post, help appreciated

As long as you don't wake up with TWO, you're just fine!
Really, morning erections are perfectly normal. Worry not.

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