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Old 12-08-2011, 10:35 PM   #1
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Unhappy Boyfriend erection/personality issues

I have been dating this guy for a few months. First I wanted to hold off on having sex, after a couple weeks he tells me he is getting tired of waiting. after a month and a half, we are fooling around and I tell him we don't have to wait anymore. But then he can't get an erection! And told me this has happened before.
I was cool about it, although this has never happened to me in my life; I have heard of it. However we are going on month 3 and the problem still exists. We still fool around, but he has never tried to touch me down there with anything but his penis. unless my clothes are still on.

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Old 12-09-2011, 01:31 AM   #2
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Re: Boyfriend erection/personality issues

I think he probably has had this problem before. When this happens, especially the first time, it seems to happen more often. He needs to be honest with you and you can help him with his erection to stay strong. After intercourse he should be OK. He is probably really sensitive and anxious and there is nothing wrong with that. I hope that helps.

Old 04-05-2012, 08:01 AM   #3
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Re: Boyfriend erection/personality issues

Why don't you guide him with your hands, show him it's ok. That may do the trick, turn him on, and give him some more confidence that what's happening is alright on both ends.

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