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Old 09-03-2003, 02:34 AM   #1
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Hey ppl, I'm a 17 year old male...please listen to this and try to give me some help...recently i feel that i have a really low sex drive...i mean a few weeks ago i was with a girl who i was trying to please and i couldn't get an erection...maybe it was performance anxiety or something...i don't know, all i know is that i can get hard erections...when i'm with girls i can get erections that are hard...but since the incident with her i have been worrying and my confidence level has been extremely low..and as i said before my sex drive has decreased dramatically...i keep looking on the internet to find information about what's going on with me but all i get is things like ... impotence (which i know isnt my problem) and sexual exhaustion due to too much masturbation...can someone please at least try to explain to me what's going on...nothing arouses me anymore and i think it has started since that incident...but i know i can have good sex as i had sex with a girl about 5 months ago and i hard a really hard erection...someone please help...sorry for this story being so long....thanx

p.s - maybe all the pornography i have seen has desensitized me...but i dont know


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Old 09-03-2003, 07:36 AM   #2
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It sounds psycological. After the "incident" u are very wory ´bout it(not geting hard...) and the stress end up putting u down. U just need to understand that this kind of thing happens to every man some time and that ur fine. Just cut the worry down, stop thinking that u have a problem, n u ll be fine in a few days...

...personal experience.

Old 09-04-2003, 11:26 PM   #3
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He's right. The worry leads to the problem and the problem leads to more worry. Downward spiral into a pit of despair.

I just posted my experience in this matter in an adjacent thread if that helps you to commisserate. You are not alone and you are not weird, so put those feelings aside.

There is such a thing as acute depression that can be triggered by a traumatic event, although I doubt this could be it. Depression can cause loss of appetite for both food and sex, and generally make you less sociable and so forth. I doubt this is it, though, and it takes a qualified professional to determine this.

I personally can't stand pron because it is so plastic and fake. I'd much rather have the real thing in my arms because that is where it's at, not that I get it that often, but when I do it's the best! Maybe cut back on the pron and see what happens.

So you don't get telephone pole erections right off? Try pleasuring your girl with caresses and sexy words, licking all over, kissing (HOT!), get her going and if you are the least bit into it pretty soon you will get going yourself and nature will take its course.

There is so much more to great sex than just poking her, so broaden your horizons about what things you can do and I guarantee you will be whistling down the street. She will definitely appreciate the effort.

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