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Old 09-16-2003, 08:11 PM   #1
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Question Girls have needs too!!

I just dont understand... when me and my b/f first started dating the first two weeks were perfect, he showed affetion and seemed like he coulndt keep his hands off of me, or show anymore affection. But now its like we barely even kiss anymore, pecks yes, but I'm talking kissed with feeling and emotion a real kiss. Now we bearly kiss/makeout/mess around once every 3 wks. Its driving me insane. I know that he still feels the same towards me b/c he tells me all the time. What happened??? For instance, 3 different occasions within 2wks we'd lay in his bed id start rubbing and caressing his chest trying to get things started/heated up he'd get turned on and I'd take care of it. But he NEVER did anything to me, not even kiss me, and everytime Id figure the next would be different, and ofcourse w/in a week or so we finally messed around right on schedule. I'm going CrAzY I dont know what to do, or go about talking to him about it??? I've asked if there is anything wrong in general with our relationship, but he replied that his feelings for me has never changed and everything was fine.Why does he play hot and cold so much? What could it be? I have needs too!!

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Old 09-17-2003, 07:44 AM   #2
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Tell him what you told us... There's really no way for us to know what his problem is. It could be 1 of 1000 different things.

Old 09-19-2003, 12:37 PM   #3
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Maybe he was only like that for the first 2 weeks because that is all it took to get you hooked. Or maybe he is stressing about something, or you did something wrong and he is the type that holds it in. The only way to find out is to ask him. Just ask him the same way you asked us. Explain to him that you feel like you have done something wrong or that he doesn't care about you the same way any more. The best way is gonna be to just come right out and ask him what is going on.

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