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Old 09-24-2003, 08:09 AM   #1
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I need some advice please. It seems that when I am having sex with my wife that it takes forever for me to reach orgasm (as long as 45 minutes), if at all. It has not always been this way and I am not sure when it started, but has gradually been getting worse and worse. Even if she is giving me oral or a helping hand it takes a very long time. If I masturbate it can be over in as little as 5 minutes, so I know it is not a physical problem but a mental one. So my question is this how do I help myself get over this mental block without going to a sex therapist? Any advice would be helpful. Thanks

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Old 09-24-2003, 12:06 PM   #2
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You've started worrying about achieving orgasm. If you focus on the feeling and emotions, you will not have this mental block anymore. This takes a lot of work and a lot of time. Talking with your partner helps as well. Tell her what your problem is. Also, stop masturbating, there is a loss of sensation associated with masturbation. If you do it excessively, this might be a problem as well. Hope this helps

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