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Not able to achieve erection - 20 years old

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Old 12-21-2014, 02:58 PM   #1
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Exclamation Not able to achieve erection - 20 years old

Hi there, Im new to this as the is my very first post, so I hope I do everything appropriately.
As seen in the subject heading, i am having trouble achieving erections when i am with girls. I dated a girl for about 3.5 years and never had any problems achieving erections with her what so ever! Long story short i found out that she had been messing around with one of my best friends while we were both away at school. (We both go to separate universities.)
Its been over a year now since all that happened and I am over it. I don't care to see them together, it doesn't bother me thinking about them at all, i no longer care at all. However, I can't seem to achieve an erection when i am with other girls now, and now all i do is think about it, and i know, thats the worst thing to do! I can masturbate and have no problem achieving an erection, but now even masturbating without porn is even hard to keep my interest there. Its gotten to the point where i don't even have the temptation/sex drive to go and try and talk to girls because i know at the end of the night its just going to lead to embarrassment. However, if i have no problem achieving an erection when i think about my ex from a year ago. And i haven't even seen nor talked to her for this entire time, so nothing should be keeping me attached.
I'm not sure what to do? Is this curable? I just want to be normal again and be able to go out and have fun like a normal 20 year old.

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Old 01-10-2015, 08:00 PM   #2
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Re: Not able to achieve erection - 20 years old

sounds psychological, I would talk to someone in that field, if you can get erect to porn, thoughts of yoru ex, or if you have morning wood, then you don't have an erection issue,

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