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Old 11-17-2003, 10:56 AM   #1
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finding it


I've read a post recently and the guy mentioned he couldn't find the vaginal opening and then went soft (unlucky mate..)

Anyways, that has me worried now that I won't find a girl's vagina hole during fingering or for intercourse! I mean is it that complicated?

It seems like you just put the penis between the lips and you're in, now I'm not so sure. (thats what they tend to do in porno, lol).

Thanks for your help

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Old 11-17-2003, 01:57 PM   #2
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Its not really so hard to find it. It doesnt move and you can obviously guess the general area that its in, lol. The issue is that if the girl is a virgin, or even "tight", it is not always so easy to get it in. You might be in the right position, but it will feel like you arent because you wont be able to get in there. It will almost feel as if you are hittin a wall. A womans vagina does not just magically open up and accept anything that pokes its head in that direction. It just takes time and practice to find the right area and to figure out how to comfortably get it in.

Old 11-17-2003, 02:05 PM   #3
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In fact is more tricky than difficult. You has to take in consideration thar in there thera are 4 lips and you need to get thru by opening them. Look at a good anatomy atlas of woman genitalia and you will find how many thing are hidden down there and also you can get the surprise that they are a bit more lower than where you thought they were

Old 11-26-2003, 11:26 AM   #4
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Re: finding it

You know what Jamie, The other guys/girls are right but they are talking in doctor language. If and when you decide to have sexual relations. first make sure both of you are in the same page, and understand that its your and her first time. Also remember that no one know the female body better than them. It might sound weird, but ask them to help you out. !!!! Meake sure that she is wet, otherwise it will hurt.(for both of you)!!!!! Regarding finguering, it depends on the girl, some dont like that, other do. Ask her first, you'll be surprise. Some girl like to be ask. If she say no to finguering dont worry, theres a lot of way to make a get a girl hot. (Right ladies). Use your immagination.

Old 03-11-2004, 01:45 AM   #5
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Re: finding it

A female's body is designed to basically allow a baby out of that hole, so in no way can it be figured that a woman be 'too tight' to allow a man's penis in!
If you allow for the fact that the average baby born is around 21 inches long and probably around 7.7lbs in weight, I hardly think that a penis will have too much problem! The vagina is basically muscle and is designed to expand and contract to fit. Remember that most females use tampons too so we are used to fingers and finger sized objects being there several days of the month. Therefore if you are having any difficulty in penetrating with a finger or indeed a penis it's usually because the girl is probably not relaxed or aroused enough. So use plenty of foreplay, take everything slow. Real slow! Judge by her reactions at what she appears to like and dislike. Don't act like a typical guy in a porno film and start attacking certain parts of her anatomy! LOL Wait until she's around 30 for that and she'll love you forever!!! LOLOL

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