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Old 12-11-2003, 02:36 PM   #1
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Exclamation Decisions, Decisions

I met this guy two years ago at a camp and we have had a long distance relationship ever since. We are in love and talk to each other almost every day for about an hour to three hours. I have not seen him since the camp but he is coming this holiday. I am in my upper teens and have yet to kiss a guy and this is my first boyfriend. I want to kiss him when he comes and maybe other things. I was wondering if anyone is in this situation, or if anyone can help me come up with ways to help me decide my lines because I donít want to have sex but I donít know where I should draw the line. I know I need to decide before he comes here or I will not be able to draw a line at all. How do you decide how far you are willing to go? Also I am trying to keep in mind that is he is not moving here just visiting, so would doing anything just make it worse when he leaves again?

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Old 12-11-2003, 03:40 PM   #2
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Re: Decisions, Decisions

You've already drawn your first line by stating you don't sex. So the hard part isn't going to be what you don't want, it's defining what you do want. First rule, if you do end up going further than planned, be ready with adequate protection, because like you said, he is only visiting for the holidays, you don't want any "gifts that keep on giving" if you know what I mean. If you are leaning towards fingering, hand jobs, oral, gather up whatever protection or devices you'll need and set your lines strongly. Don't be affraid to cut htings off if you find them going too far too fast. You are the only one that knows these boundaries, but things happen, so just protect yourself.

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