It appears you have not yet Signed Up with our community. To Sign Up for free, please click here....

Sexual Health - Teens Message Board

confused...need some help plz!!

Post New Thread   Closed Thread
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old 03-06-2005, 09:18 PM   #1
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 1
auburn66 HB User
Question confused...need some help plz!!

Hey. I don't even know if this is the right place to post this but i had a question and thought some of you might be able to help. im a girl and have had bfs and have a serious one now. but is it normal for girl-girl action to turn me on? and when i masturbate i often think of girls doin stuff to me or eachother. does this mean im bi? or gay? or is it just normal? any advice would be great! thanks!

Sponsors Lightbulb
Old 03-18-2005, 02:14 PM   #2
Junior Member
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 46
Pebbles_pix HB User
Re: confused...need some help plz!!

No I don't think u are gay. or bi. I am a female and when i finger myself I sometimes think of some girlongirl action to,but the question is do u think of ur boyfriend first or after u masterbuate?

Old 03-18-2005, 05:08 PM   #3
Junior Member
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 31
Re: confused...need some help plz!!

You're not alone. My girlfriend thinks exactly the same as you yet her and I have great sex together. .. enjoy..Perhaps your man would find this very exciting, as i did very much so and we talk about it all the time, it certainly gets us both excited..

Old 03-18-2005, 05:11 PM   #4
Senior Member
Join Date: Aug 2004
Posts: 227
something_witty HB User
Re: confused...need some help plz!!

So long as your boyfriend turns you on and you're attracted to guys, I wouldn't worry about it. It doesn't mean you're gay. Anyway, believe it or not, most people aren't 100% gay or 100% straight (there's even variation in bisexual people on how much they like one sex or the other). It's perfectly normal to enjoy fantasizing a little about members of the same sex, even if you're straight. Since you're posting on the teen board, I'm going to assume you're fairly young, which makes it even more normal (a lot of teens go through a period of time where their sexuality is a little more flexible than usual; some even will have sexual experiences with members of their own gender, then not do it again when they're adults.)

Does that help?

Old 03-18-2005, 07:38 PM   #5
The only name not taken
Senior Veteran
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: Australia
Posts: 686
The only name not taken HB User
Re: confused...need some help plz!!

Given out current culture, girls have a much larger "grey Area" for these things then guys. If a guy thinks of another guy "that way", he's assumed gay. But girls can kiss etc, and still be considered striaght.

Basically - None of this really matters in the end. Do what ever makes u happy, and dont hold back just to satisfy a stereotype. As said, your b/fs will most likely be somewhat happy to hear your not grossed out my girl-on-girl action.
[-]Better To Die On Your Feet, Then Live On Your Knees[-]

Closed Thread

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

Sign Up Today!

Ask our community of thousands of members your health questions, and learn from others experiences. Join the conversation!

I want my free account

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 08:54 AM.

Site owned and operated by HealthBoards.comô
© 1998-2018 HealthBoards.comô All rights reserved.
Do not copy or redistribute in any form!