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Old 12-19-2007, 09:19 AM   #1
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does loosing your virginity hurt

okay there is this boy and saturday night were plainging on having sex im a virgin and he is not and he has a really big penis its 9 inchs is this going to hurt me alot, i mean what should i do,

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Old 12-20-2007, 08:39 AM   #2
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Re: does loosing your virginity hurt

It will hurt. How much just really depends on the girl, and on the guy. Relax. If your body is tense and resisting it will make it more difficult and more painfull. You'll want to be well lubricated, either naturally or with a product. Make sure he goes slows and listens to you. If he's rough and fast it will be more painful. He needs to be gentle and ease his way in. He can't expect you to be a "love machine" your first night out! Chances are you'll just lay there while he does his thing. Don't expect to get any physical pleasure your first time. It hurts and it's usually just awkward. Of course its different for everyone though.

I'm gonna get a little "big sister" for a moment.
You said "this boy".... is this just some guy, or a boyfriend that you've been dating and know you're ready to be with? Please don't make the same mistake i did, and sleep with some guy just to "get it over with." My only regret in life is losing my virginty the way I did and the person I did it with.

Be smart, and be safe.

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Old 12-20-2007, 11:29 AM   #3
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Re: does loosing your virginity hurt

I agree with the last post. The first time will be painful, and how painful varies from women to women.
Hopefully the guy is one that loves you. Why go thru such a first time painful experience with just any old guy?
Some guys will be ruff just because they can, and will not care about your wishes once they get started. Please be very sure you are ready to do this, and to do it with this person you've mentions.
It would be wise to start out with a guy with a small penis.

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Re: does loosing your virginity hurt

9 inches? Then of course it's going to hurt.

9 inches would make him bigger than most porn stars so I can't imagine it NOT hurting a virgin. Unless he's lying, of course.

BTW, being a virgin doesn't necessarily mean you have a hymen and it's typically the tearing of the hymen that hurts. If you've already torn your hymen from other activities then it shouldn't hurt as much, if at all.

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