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please help. I can't get my boyfriend to climax

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Old 06-26-2012, 10:49 PM   #1
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well my relationship has been going on 1 1/2 years. we started geting sexually active about a half a year ago or more but we havent had sex. now this is the first time both of us had sexual contact with anyone. well we both deeply desire each other and have strong conection. the deal is i wanted to make my boyfriend climax for his pleasure . i begain to study handjobs and blow jobs for him ( even thu it was un pleasent some vids ) and he tells me that he feels amazing and he can feel him cuming but he never has. I done almost every thing ( from dirty talk to messing with his balls to lotion) but nothing. .... he swears he wants to *** and on top of that he can do it by him self. He made me cilmax but i cant do the same for him . I begain to feel ashamed and a failer but i keep trying. the thing that gets to me the most is that he can do it by him self. what am I doing wrong ????? and what can i do ????

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Old 06-29-2012, 02:18 AM   #2
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Re: please help. I can't get my boyfriend to climax

You should not feel guilty or ashamed. You are doing nothing wrong -- in fact your boyfriend no doubt appreciates what you are doing for him. You are certainly giving him a great deal of pleasure and you are definitely not a failure. The fact is that a lot of guys cannot ejaculate during oral sex. For me, oral sex is an enjoyable and stimulating preparation for vaginal sex, not an ejaculatory end in itself -- and I wouldn't have it any other way.

You are both having an enjoyable, intimate and satisfying relationship with what you are doing. Continue to do that and feel happy about it. My best wishes to you both.
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