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Old 11-26-2012, 11:55 PM   #1
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I am 24yr old female. I was in a crappy somewhat abusive relationship for 3 years that sex pretty much sucked. It was always just a quick fix for him. I would always end up rubbing myself off afterwards. We did end up having a baby. A year later I am in a 5 month relationship with this great guy. He is always wanting me to get off.

Problem is, he hasn't hit my G spot (and I cannot tell you the last time I had a Gspot orgasm .. maybe when I was 17/18?) and he is so frustrated that I am not getting there. So he gives me oral. That takes me almost a half hour anymore now, I think I am getting too used of it. He gives me oral so often, like every night 3 days in a row (I stay thurs-sunday with him) to where I don't even feel the need to touch myself on during the times we are not together.

Sometimes I feel it is because I am a tired mother.

A couple times I got all hyperventilating and started getting numb everywhere, I think it was because of my breathing patterns trying to make myself 'get there' and then he gets upset about that because I will take over an hour and then he'll give up.

I really want to have a Gspot one again, I really miss those! haha. Should I talk to him about finding it with his fingers first? It's like I have to find it again too...

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Old 11-27-2012, 10:45 PM   #2
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Re: Any advice

Well, I think fingering is an option. Why not?

I found my wife G-spot 2 years later after careful search, by using any possible position. Since then, she always asked me to hit that point. First, I found the position was quite hard, either spooning nor missionary while we're on the same bed.


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