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candybear78 12-21-2012 08:06 AM

please help me.
My boyfriend is totally lacking in the foreplay department. He used to be really great at it and did everything to please me and get me off. I always do what it takes to make him get off, even if it hurts my hand. He has been very lack luster in the fore play department and i even see him watching tv while we have sex. I am currently 5 months pregnant and have done things he has asked to spice things up(despite how uncomfortable i was). Is this the end of my sex life with him or is there a chance for us. I have asked him what's wrong and he says he has asked a low sex drive and its just a phase. Yet he has tons of porn on his phone and computer. Someone please help me, i want to have fore play back, and have him be interested in sex.

Juhit 01-01-2013 04:52 AM

Re: please help me.
May be he must in some bad mood . Give him some time and scape.

Kszan 01-01-2013 01:03 PM

Re: please help me.
Have you talked to him about this? At the root of most relationship problems is a lack of communication. Many people struggle with how to communicate properly with each other so instead if resolving issues people start yelling or blaming each other. It's not totally hard to do it right but so many people struggle with it. I think you should sit down with him and say, Hey Joe, can we talk about some things? And then without blaming him or accusing him of anything tell him things that you like about what he does and let him know how much you enjoy when he does - whatever - and it would be really great if he would do that more. And then ask him if there's anything that he would like you to do as well. It will make him feel like his feelings matter to you too.

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