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    Old 04-15-2008, 06:47 AM   #1
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    Pregnant After 7 years of TTC

    Hi everyone I never had an IVF or IUI but I feel your pain. We have been TTC for over 7 years. I have never felt so alone or hopeless in my life. IF is such a private and personal pain that it seems no one understands. I have delt with major depression along the way and some really bad anger problems. I was so mad all the time really bad when someone would be pregnant. I haven't been to a baby shower in 6 years because I couldn't stand to sit there and pretend to be happy. I couldn't even hold my nieces when they was born I missed out on that joy don't get me wronge I was happy but also so incredibley sad I felt something I can't explain. Every month it was always the same thing you try to see hope in everything even when you BBT starts going down and your spotting and get crushed when AF arrived just like you knew it would.
    Here is what all we have been doing for 7 years!!

    5/2000 had DS (previous relationship was dating DH then)
    10/2000 knew we wanted another one stopped BCP
    10/2001 started to think something wasn't right
    5/2002 Talked to OB/GYN said to try for 2 years natural
    10/2002 started to loose hope
    6/2003 Talked to Ob'Gyn again ordered SA for DH dirrected me to chart temp for 6 months.
    7/2003 Dh SA low motility order to redo in 6 months
    12/2003 6 months temping seemed to O like I was suppose to but had long cycles.
    1/2004 2nd SA lower motility and lower sperm count give up due to money issues and urolgist said no hope.
    2/2/2005 BFP!!!!! 10 weeks and had no clue wasn't trying
    2/16/2005 Miscarriage D & C was heartbroke and completely devastated major depression almost ruined my marriage seperated completely from everyone wouldn't talk to anyone.
    4/2005 talk to dr about trying again
    5/2005 refered to specilist 2 hrs away
    6/2005 Dh Sa again still horrilbly low motility and sperm count really low testostrone started testostrone shots for a year.... ME still temping
    7/2006 T-shots over testostrone raised 2 point still low
    1/2007 HSG test
    2/2007 First clomid provera
    4/2007 second clomid provera
    5/2007 third clomid provera
    6/2007 SA again lower than before
    7/2007 specialist said we had no chance without IVF that IUI would be a waste of money and time.
    so we started saving everything we could don't make alot of money to begin with.
    8/2007 said we would save for a year and go back
    9/2007 said we was stopping everything and just enjoy being together
    2/2008 BFP!!!!!
    4/15/08 12w 2 days and still worried over every thing.
    me 30/DH3/
    5/21/00........CODY MICHAEL
    TTC 2nd 10/00
    our angel 2/16/05
    10/16/08..... AVA GRACE
    Maybe TTC #3 if it's ment to be ok if not ok not stressing this time. :-)

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