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Old 04-13-2003, 04:03 PM   #1
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Question what do i do? i dk how i feel..... really good friends with this guy i know. hes one of my best friends. the problem is, just a little while ago he told me he loved me. that he couldnt get me off his mind and hes been trying to get over me for months now. i dont know if i like him or not...i mean i know i love him as a friend, but i dont know if i really kno the difference between loving someone as a friend, or more. we talk pretty much every day on the phone, and i could probably tell him just about anything. we went out once but only for a few days...becuz i was so stressed about it and i couldnt sleep at night, so i broke up with him. then he asked me out on valentines day...and a few days later i told him no. i think im sorta scared to go out with him becuz, he can be so mature and so serious...and i dk if hes really in love with me, i dk how he could be. but all i know is that he thinks he is. anyways please help. thanks...
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Old 04-13-2003, 04:23 PM   #2
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There is a special thing called chemistry. If you have not felt it, trust yourself and realize that this relationship should stay in the friendship mode. He will probably be in your life longer this way.

Old 04-13-2003, 08:00 PM   #3
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by the way this is new user thing. You make it sound so easy...I dont know if there IS chemistry or not. sometimes i think i like him, but again sometimes i think its just as friends. im so confused. i get jealous when he flirts with other girls, and when he starts trying to like another girl...i know thats selfish becuz ive turned him down. but i cant help it. do any of you think he could really be in love? hes the most deep guy i know. hes really religious and even started a bible study at school. so ik hes not just saying it. by the way...we're both 14, in 8th grade. any advice?
~*Jennifer Angela*~

Old 04-14-2003, 02:11 PM   #4
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i dont think you really like him in that way. Alot of the time when someone says they like you, you sorta start to like them back but its more that you are flattered than you like them...if that makes any sense. Anyway I garuntee if you started dating him you would find someone you liked better and get yourself into a sticky situation.

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