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Old 04-15-2003, 05:36 PM   #1
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Angry Can't talk to girls

I'm 18 years old and still have trouble talking to girls 1-on-1 (phone,in-person, or on computer). I know some of you will probably tell me to just ask questions about their interests to get to know them. But that's not what I mean. This may seem kind of hard to explain..but just in GENERAL, I can't talk to any girls, unless it's about school or work. I don't know what to say to keep a conversation going. Really short "chit-chat" is far as I can go. If theres 2 girls, and myself, I'm fine. Someone please help me out.

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Old 04-15-2003, 06:46 PM   #2
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Time killers involve acting stupid, telling jokes, making funnies, teasing/playing with her. I have the same problem man you arent alone.

Old 04-15-2003, 07:26 PM   #3
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You are not alone. Some days, if I am really energetic, I can talk to everyone about a lot, but most of the time its hard to keep a conversation going with girls that aren't my close friends. I hate having to talk about school, because no one wants to think about that when they don't have to. All I can say is try to be yourself, tell jokes, mess around with her etc. Good luck!

Old 04-15-2003, 07:41 PM   #4
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That's so tough. LOTS of guys have the same problem. The best advice I can give is to ask girls about themselves. Most people enjoy talking about themselves and girls are no different. Ask them about their interests--what do they like to do?

Above all, relax. It takes time and practice. (I know, that's not what you want to hear.)

Take care,

Mats (RN)

Old 04-22-2003, 07:35 PM   #5
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Thanks, the advice is good, but... The advice about teasing, telling jokes, messing around, asking questions about interests seems to be things I should do to a girl I "like". Like, I just want to able to keep a regular conversation going about regular things.

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