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Old 04-22-2003, 11:08 PM   #1
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Question Can't get over a guy who's older than me...

Hey everyone. I can't get over a guy who is 3 years older than me. We went out once, but the age thing was a big deal to him, so that was it. I've shared what's in my heart to him a few times, and each time he doesn't know what to say. Then at the end of our conversation he says something along the lines of how we should forget that the conversation ever happened. Whoever reads this probably thinks that I just don't know to take a hint, but I seriously can't stop thinking about him. I don't know what to do.

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Old 04-23-2003, 08:34 AM   #2
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hey hun,
i think that you should try to kinda forget about him. it might be hard but you know when you feel that way towards a guy he should feel that same thing back for there to be a real relationship. its ganna be challenging. get in sports, activites, hang with your friends more to keep yourself occupied. eventually you'll think more about otha things. if there is anything else you wanna ask just ask. ill be here.

Old 04-23-2003, 03:00 PM   #3
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Your going to have to except it, get over him and move on. (Easier said then done I know)! Take up a new hobby, or a new class, or go out with your mates-basically keep busy because that way you won't feel so bad. Allow yourself to cry as well, as that's all part of the healing process.

Old 04-24-2003, 03:33 PM   #4
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3 years??is too much of a age gap?? lol. My first b/f was 8 years older than I am. anyways..we broke up because everyone else made a huge deal about our age difference. we liked each other alot, and we weren't uncomfortable with the age gap. Also, we had been friends since I was born..
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