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Old 07-22-2003, 01:30 PM   #1
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do any of u think that kissing a guy on the cheek is considered cheating??...
it was one time it was a second no feelings or anything just a kiss on the cheek...
ya or no?
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Old 07-22-2003, 09:09 PM   #2
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Depends if you liked it if you ask me, and who it was.

Old 07-23-2003, 02:19 AM   #3
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Definitely not - as you get older you'll notice that quite a lot of people kiss each other on the cheeks to say "Hi" (here in Europe it's especially popular, particularly in France, Italy and Spain!), it means absolutely nothing but a friendly "Hello"

In my mind anything that does not involve feelings and doesn't go beyond a certain limit (for me it would be a "proper" kiss, not necessarily with tongues but more than just a peck on the lips) can't be considered "cheating" - the general definition is that of actually sleeping with someone but obviously when feelings are involved (i.e. someone falls for another person) then IMHO it doesn't matter whether they actually go as far as to sleep with the person because they've obviously got feelings for someone else.

Each of us has a different definition of cheating, and what counts is that you respect the feelings of your gf/bf unless they are totally ridiculous and over the top (say "You can't even talk to a guy if I'm not there").

That said I am sure most people will at one or more points in their lives have a drunk (or even sober - you don't necessarily have to be tipsy to make a silly mistake) but meaningless kiss/snog with someone.

If you feel you've "crossed the line" then it's a good idea to tell your gf/bf about it - more likely than not they won't consider a kiss on the cheek as a breach of their trust

Old 07-24-2003, 06:30 PM   #4
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i think that if u have to ask if its cheating hun is cheating

Old 07-25-2003, 10:51 AM   #5
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the only reason i ask this question is because ..cheating is different for different people so im just wondering what all of you thought..i never kissed anyone on the cheek..i would never do that to my boyfriend..soo what do ya think guyz cheating or no??

Old 07-27-2003, 06:09 PM   #6
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I don't think so, if you had feelings for the guy you were kissing, it wouldn't be good, but it's still not cheating.

Old 08-02-2003, 02:39 AM   #7
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QT, unless your european, no kissy the other boys. Really. You have a BF so get some use out of him!

Old 08-03-2003, 11:39 PM   #8
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would you get mad at your boy/girlfriend if they did it to you? would you consider it cheating if they did it?

Old 08-04-2003, 09:55 AM   #9
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Knowing me, i'd get mad, but i would probably forgive her, depends how much she means to me.

Old 08-04-2003, 07:30 PM   #10
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I dont' think it's cheating. I kiss my friends on the cheek when I greet them and most of my friends are guys. I do this in front of my b/f too and he knows it means nothing other than a hello. So nope, I don't think it's cheating ... now if it were on the lips even tho a quick peck, then you'd have to think more closely about that.


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