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Old 09-05-2003, 12:32 PM   #1
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hey everyone,
I have this problem with relationships.Im in my late teens and Ive never had a serious long term relationship,its not that I cant get one,its just that whenever Im "seeing" someone and it comes down to weather or not we will be a couple,I always get soooo scared and start to imagine them in a really bad way.Its almost like I hate them for some reason and I dont know why.I'll like the person and then as soon as I realize that they want to go out with me,I start to not like them.But then,a few months or years down the road I always regret not going out with them and I dont know why.Does anyone know why this happens and what I can do about it? Thanks and take care.
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Old 09-05-2003, 02:53 PM   #2
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Thats a difficult thing to overcome. Why do you suddenly lose interest? Any idea? You say you start to look at them in a bad way or something? Like how? Maybe you just havent found someone you really like? Or maybe you are really a lesbian! jk

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Old 09-06-2003, 07:57 PM   #3
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ahh same problem i have . i htink its just cause we like the challenge of getting a girl we like to like us. when they do, its like we met teh goal and its no fun anymore.

Old 09-07-2003, 10:30 PM   #4
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I think Boarderguy is right.

Your aiming for someone to like u, when they do,u get bored.

I'm not to sure what u should do . . .

Maybe set a goal to have a REAL relationship, and not just to go out . .

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Old 09-09-2003, 03:16 AM   #5
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Sounds like you're afraid of commitment - that's kind of normal at that age, maybe you're just not ready for an exclusive and "serious" long-term relationship?
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