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Old 09-06-2003, 09:35 PM   #1
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there is this girl that i like and i have already asked her for her phone# and she said she would give it to me after the week end. im planning to ask her out and i was wondering, if she says "yes" and we do go out, after , does that meen we're girlfriend and boyfriend?give me a hand please....


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Old 09-06-2003, 10:00 PM   #2
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it doesnt really mean ur gf and bf...a date is usually something that u do with a person to have fun and get to know them better, but not really the deciding factor on a relationship. when u feel comfortable though u can ask if if she wants to go out with u.


Old 09-07-2003, 10:22 PM   #3
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Depends on whats customary where u live.

Here, basically, by "Asking Someone Out" it means your looking to become GF/BF.

But going on a date proly doesn't mean that much, accept u like the person.

The only thing that defines GF/BF is a Kiss I reckon.
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Old 09-10-2003, 08:07 AM   #4
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Think about it. Let's say you go out on a date with this girl and she starts picking her boogers and eating them and doing lots of gross stuff and you decide that you never want to see her again. You wouldn't want her to tell everyone that you're her boyfriend just because you went on one date, right?

Knowing when you're officially "girlfriend and boyfriend" doesn't become easier as you get older. It's even an issue with adults! It has nothing to do with how many times you've been on a date or if you've kissed. It has to do with both of you agreeing to be girlfriend and boyfriend.

If you'd like her to be your girlfriend: ASK HER. You can't say that you're her boyfriend until she says it's okay and vice versa. Don't take anything for granted. Stick to this rule when you're older, as well. It will save you many headaches.

Oh, and the same goes for breaking up. If you ever break up with a girl, make sure to tell her (not in a mean way). Tell her personally. That's the only way.

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Old 09-11-2003, 08:01 PM   #5
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ummm.....NO. if you want to be her bf then you have to ask her out and i personally say get her some roses for the next time you go out and ask her if she will be your gf. no woman in her right mind can deny a guy with roses or chocolate.. or even a teddy bear. but you have to ask her out to be going out
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