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Old 09-06-2003, 12:07 PM   #1
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i just started hooking up with this girl a week ago, and we've been best friends for a little over a year now. last night, we were in the pool making out, and i moved my hands to her breasts. at first she really liked it, infact she was moaning which i thought was a good thing? but after 20 seconds she pushed my hands off and said no, but she was still breathing fast, etc. so i decided to move my hands up her chest again and she was breathing faster, obviously enjoying it and letting me touch her breasts again for a while, but again she moved my hands off and said 'no...'. this continued on a cycle for about 10 minutes then i decided to stop. now, was i in the wrong for trying to do that? it just seemed like she was enjoying it so i didnt want to stop.

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Old 09-06-2003, 02:04 PM   #2
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Yeah she probably did like it but didn't want things to get out of hand.

Old 09-06-2003, 07:11 PM   #3
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Yeah, she was trying to stop things before they went too far.

Old 09-13-2003, 07:18 PM   #4
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i am sure she enjoyed it but remember this always.. NO MEANS NO.. she probably thought you wanted to have sex and she didnt want that.. but yet she did.. so she thought she sould make the decision and say no she doesnt want to take a chance.. take things a little slower.. maybe you should try to do things other than make out.. and kiss.. and stuff show her you really care and form a relationship
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Old 09-16-2003, 06:41 PM   #5
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she definitly liked it, but was trying to stop it from getting out of hand. above message- electric, you're right... remember, no means no... so if she says no the first time stop...


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Old 09-16-2003, 09:16 PM   #6
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I agree with the above posts, she probably liked it. However, no means no. If she says no, don't try again 1 minute later, that might make her think that all you want is sex... and if she doesn't want to or doesn't think she's ready, that can really hurt your relationship. Just take things slow, one step at a time, then see what happens.

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