It appears you have not yet Signed Up with our community. To Sign Up for free, please click here....



Teen Health Message Board

What does this mean?


Post New Thread   Closed Thread
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old 06-15-2004, 03:23 PM   #1
butterflyz87
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Posts: 96
butterflyz87 HB User
What does this mean?

ok, i'm confused. I'm supposed to be goin out on a date w/ this guy i like, and i get the feeling that he likes me too, but I wanna know if u guys think he would make a move or not on the date.

Today we were supposed to meet at the park by my house at 1, but he txt me at like 11 something and asked if i wanted to meet him at the pool, and i said i couldn't cuz my dad wasn't home. So he txt back and said could we still meet at like 4 or 5 at the park, and i said ok sounds good. And then other times he's called me 'babe' 'baby' and 'sexy', and this was after he said that we're not really b/f g/f yet and we'd have to see how the date goes. And mostly he txts me at night, at like midnight

Now, do u think he's hinting that he wants to be b/f g/f or what? And does he REALLY like me?

 
Sponsors Lightbulb
   
Old 06-15-2004, 07:52 PM   #2
eightball61
Inactive
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: ma
Posts: 9,631
eightball61 HB User
Re: What does this mean?

I am sensing he does but doesn't knw how to show it like most boys. Now you said you both are going out on a dates which tell me "yes" he must if he is taking the time to take you out.

I can't guess his actions with making a move or not but i suggest taking it slow unless you want to go with what he does. Its ok to hold hands your put an arm around the first date. You seem young and I you dont need to take any further action yet.

 
Old 06-15-2004, 08:44 PM   #3
butterflyz87
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Posts: 96
butterflyz87 HB User
Re: What does this mean?

i'm 16, but thanx for postin

 
Old 06-15-2004, 11:41 PM   #4
Connor
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: TX
Posts: 248
Connor HB User
Re: What does this mean?

seems that he does like u. ive seen that unless its ur best friend , then people only txt messsage if they like each other. and seeing as how he txt messages u at night and what not, rather than on the phone. shows that he likes u but isnt sure how to say it upfront.

so yeah he likes u. and in wanting to meet up with u at some place , it seems like a given that he likes u in that way.

as to what his intentions are. who knows. i dont know the guy so i cant really say. seeing as how hes txt messaging u. rather than just talking to u over the phone. seems that he is a bit shy. so i doubt he would make a move on u on the first date. unless hes a bit of a perv.

not too sure he wants to be ur boyfriend just yet. as to if he 'really' likes u. it seems like he does. but u two dont seem close or anything. so he probably just has a simple crush on u.

 
Old 06-16-2004, 07:26 AM   #5
eightball61
Inactive
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: ma
Posts: 9,631
eightball61 HB User
Re: What does this mean?

Quote:
Originally Posted by butterflyz87
i'm 16, but thanx for postin
It doesn't matter is you are 16 or under. You are still to be taking any action when it comes to moves. Wait till you are ready & save things until you are ready. I know this is not what you mean by moves but I am just keeping you aware.

I am sure that he likes you and you should move further to be a couple.

 
Old 06-16-2004, 11:37 AM   #6
butterflyz87
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Posts: 96
butterflyz87 HB User
Re: What does this mean?

Guess what?! He asked me out last night!! LOL it was so cute how he did it though...he wanted to play 'the question game', and it was one of his questions. Thanx for helpin though

 
Old 06-16-2004, 12:30 PM   #7
eightball61
Inactive
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: ma
Posts: 9,631
eightball61 HB User
Re: What does this mean?

Uhhh the question game

So you mention that he ask you out but you never said what you answered?

Its good to hear though

 
Old 06-16-2004, 04:57 PM   #8
butterflyz87
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Posts: 96
butterflyz87 HB User
Re: What does this mean?

oh i definitely said yes....here's the part of the convo where he asked....

Me (10:23:40 PM): ur turn
Him(10:24:05 PM): will you go out with me
Me(10:24:20 PM): yes
Him(10:24:43 PM): sweet
Me(10:25:14 PM): ok i got a ? for u
Him(10:25:26 PM): okie dokie
Me(10:25:56 PM): how long have u liked me?
Him(10:26:22 PM): THAT IS CRAZY I WAS GONNA ASK YOU THAT
Him(10:26:40 PM): um since like 2nd month of second semester\
Me(10:26:42 PM): OMG
Me(10:27:04 PM): r u serious?
Him(10:27:36 PM): yea how long have you like me?
Me(10:28:13 PM): since like march
Him(10:28:37 PM): thank god i signed that book thingy
Me(11:04:38 PM): ok, so if u've liked me for that long, how come u never did n/e thing about it?
Him(11:05:17 PM): i duno i didnt think you liked me evn as a friednd
Me(11:05:42 PM): aww...how come?
Him(11:05:59 PM): i duno

I haven't stopped smiling!!! All Day...it's insane! I woke up at 3 this morning smiling and didn't go back to sleep till like 4:30 cuz i was so happy. And then when i woke up at 11 today i started smiling! It's insane. But it just doesn't feel real yet.

thanx for postin

 
Old 06-16-2004, 05:00 PM   #9
giggles4always
Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2004
Posts: 95
giggles4always HB User
Re: What does this mean?

That is so kool......

 
Old 06-17-2004, 09:31 PM   #10
Connor
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: TX
Posts: 248
Connor HB User
Re: What does this mean?

lol. glad to hear.

yeah when ur so excited and cant sleep cause of it, then yeah haha. thats a good thing. and if it never wears off then thats an even better sign haha.

so good luck to ya!

 
Old 06-18-2004, 10:01 AM   #11
butterflyz87
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Posts: 96
butterflyz87 HB User
Re: What does this mean?

thanx u guys!! I have calm down a little bit, i can sleep a lil better now. But it's weird cuz i haven't felt the urge to eat lately or since it happened...is that weird? cuz 2 of my friends say it happens to them. But ya, i'm still happy though. He says he loves me every night ever since he asked me, which makes me smile when he does. But thanx for postin!

 
Old 06-18-2004, 03:52 PM   #12
Connor
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: TX
Posts: 248
Connor HB User
Re: What does this mean?

if u lost ur appetite then ur probably love sick or just crazy in love to where ur so caught up with this guy that u dont get hungry or tired. even though u do, u just dont realize it.

but thats normal and itll be like that for a short time.

 
Old 06-18-2004, 08:32 PM   #13
butterflyz87
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Posts: 96
butterflyz87 HB User
Re: What does this mean?

oh goody...that's what my friend said, that i was lovesick. I have probably a stupid question, what does lovesick mean?

 
Old 06-18-2004, 11:20 PM   #14
Will M.
Veteran
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Austin
Posts: 396
Will M. HB User
Re: What does this mean?

Quote:
Originally Posted by butterflyz87
thanx u guys!! I have calm down a little bit, i can sleep a lil better now. But it's weird cuz i haven't felt the urge to eat lately or since it happened...is that weird? cuz 2 of my friends say it happens to them. But ya, i'm still happy though. He says he loves me every night ever since he asked me, which makes me smile when he does. But thanx for postin!
I've lost my appetite, when I'm about to ask someone out. Usually I won't eat afterwords either, but it probably doesn't matter what the outcome is. Good luck.

 
Old 06-19-2004, 05:07 PM   #15
Connor
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: TX
Posts: 248
Connor HB User
Re: What does this mean?

Quote:
Originally Posted by butterflyz87
oh goody...that's what my friend said, that i was lovesick. I have probably a stupid question, what does lovesick mean?
lovesick means when ur so deeply affected by love that ur unable to act normally. which is why when people feel this way, people say their lovesick.
doesnt mean its a disease or actualy symptoms like the flu or a common cold. its just that ur so involved and fixated on this one person that u like or have a crush on, that it interferes with ur daily activities. but once ur with the guy for long enough, then the butterflies in ur stomach and all the symptoms will go away. cause youll be more comfortable. but it doesnt last too long. but for a few days or even a couple of weeks youll be like that.

 
Closed Thread

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Board Replies Last Post
what will muscle biopsy tell me? casinogal Muscular Dystrophy 2 04-18-2010 03:58 PM
Can someone explain what this means???? skych Pain Management 10 05-11-2008 07:38 AM
Help needed...I have no idea what is going on????? kenzlane Thyroid Disorders 7 02-13-2006 03:41 PM
This Friend Knows What She Needs to Do.... goody2shuz Relationship Health 297 07-06-2005 06:22 AM
What do you think of my relation? Ichigoraion Relationship Health 23 04-23-2005 04:03 AM
Low sed rate??? What does this mean?? thescaredest Arthritis 3 09-16-2004 07:01 AM
What the **** is her problem!? butterflyz87 Teen Health 7 06-25-2004 04:08 PM
what would you do if? kbell Relationship Health 120 05-27-2004 09:27 AM
"Physiological Pulmononary Insufficiency"-What does this mean?? PinkBanana Lung & Respiratory Disorders / COPD 1 01-05-2004 05:39 PM
Sibling problem -- What would you do? serenityelf Relationship Health 11 11-25-2003 09:16 AM




Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off




Sign Up Today!

Ask our community of thousands of members your health questions, and learn from others experiences. Join the conversation!

I want my free account

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 01:36 PM.



Site owned and operated by HealthBoards.comô
Terms of Use © 1998-2017 HealthBoards.comô All rights reserved.
Do not copy or redistribute in any form!