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Old 07-19-2004, 02:31 AM   #1
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Guys around Girls...

Hey buddies. Ok erm, I have a few friends, best friends who I've known forever. But when they're around girls, they're like... total dicks (am I allowed to use that word? Pshh ok ) Anyways, sometimes when we're around some, let's use the word 'attractive', girls they start acting all tough and turn on me, talk **** about me... And when they leave they're like "Hey Willis let's hang out, whattya wanna do?" So... What can I do?

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Old 07-19-2004, 03:40 AM   #2
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Re: Guys around Girls...

First - Only pricks do that, and personally - I dont put up with somone who's personality changes with company.

Second - If you wanna try to get them to stop it, the BEST thing (and it just about always works) is to say something infront of the girls they are tryin to impress. Just ask why they are actin like a tough-***, or why they are different. They will be embarrased as!
Althought - this will tend to make then somewhat ****** off with you.

If you want to keep your friendship with them, other them talkin to them and telling them what they are doin - I dont think u cant. The above is the only things I can think of.

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Old 07-19-2004, 07:44 AM   #3
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Re: Guys around Girls...

Nah...I reckon u shouldn't worry about ******* them off...just tell them to their face what the hell their tryin to prove....they wanna play games with u, so u can play games with them....tell them in front of the gurls to quit putting on a show for them....I noticed alot of guys are like this...they bag eachother out in front of their mates when theirs "people" around...I think its stupid and if n e one did that to me I'd be EXTREMELY ****** off....I wouldn't tolerate it at all....and if that doesn't work than give them a taste of their own medicine....I reckon u should try confrontin them in front of the gurls first....goodluck...

Old 07-19-2004, 08:53 AM   #4
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Re: Guys around Girls...

If they are like this now then expect then to be this way for years to come. They act like this because it shows power and leadership. This is where guys get it wrong today...Girls are not looking for a super hero, they are looking for a Gentlemen. Just be who you are and let them make fools of themselves because as time comes then they will notice a decline in girls while you get the rise.

Old 07-20-2004, 07:12 PM   #5
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Re: Guys around Girls...

Well, girls don't really like wimps, either, (other than to dominate themselves) and if the other guys are dumping on you, even though they may appear to be jerks to the girls, too, you will still come off as a fool if you smply stand there and take it.

The guys might not even realize what they are doing, so speak to them about it. If they won't stop it, then you need to find some better friends, or learn to accept your role.

Old 07-21-2004, 06:22 AM   #6
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Re: Guys around Girls...

Originally Posted by Magnetic
Well, girls don't really like wimps, .
Which is true but I am sure they also want someone to treat them with respect and still have that tough vibe also. I have seen a lot of guys have that tough vibe but not know how to treat a women.

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