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    Old 08-26-2004, 01:45 PM   #1
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    Unhappy hottest girl in school!! dont know what to say to her!! or when.

    ok,here's the deal. there is a girl i have been in love with since 1 grade!!
    she grew up and became the hottest girl in school!!! but the one thing is that
    nobody notice her!! thank you god!!! i have no competence. but althought she has a lot of girlfriends. and she is SHY!! she is so shy that she wont even clap in a theather, or use the telephone, and she only talks to girls because she is so shy!! (and no, she is not lesbian). i had send her like 5 letters already she only responded the first one i sended her!! i even busted my *** off joining the football, wrestling, lacrosse teams!! i even made VARSITY
    JUST TO GAIN HER HEARTH!!! but she still wouldnt notice me !!!
    i dont know what else to do!!!
    i even bought my a car!!!
    she is so beautiful!!!!
    i would give my life for her!!!
    i would do anything just to have her in my life!!!!!
    but everytime i think about it and decide to talk to her, MY LEGS JUST CRAMP!!! IS LIKE I HAVE AN ANTI JENNIFER SYSTEM!!!
    IM JUST SO SHY!!!!

    WHAT THE HECK SHOULD I DO!!!???

    PLS IM DESPERATE!!

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    Old 08-26-2004, 02:05 PM   #2
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    If you are thinking of suicide over a girl then I recommend couseling.


    With that said, I can understand why she is shy after you said that she is hardley noticed. You also mentioned that you sent her 5 letters and she only responded to one. Its a good thing that she wrote you but but shy people can right. My question is why did you write her? There is email, messanger, phone, school, ect.

    She is shy but you are to in a way. You have done everything to talk to her but failed to mention that you have actually tried at school. I would suggest you trey that more so she can get used of you.

     
    Old 08-26-2004, 02:49 PM   #3
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    Suicide is not the answer. You need to seek counseling if you are this desperate for her attention.

    This is why they call them "crushes." You do all you can to make them notice you, only to be crushed in the end.

    I suggest just moving on. If she isn't interested, you can't make her be. Try to see other girls. I know this is petty, but most girls your age tend to notice a guy once he is taken.

     
    Old 08-26-2004, 06:35 PM   #4
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    eightball61, im just too shy to ask her for her e-mail, or messenger, or anything!!!!i told you i have an anti jenny system installed in my nervious system!!!

    blue_eyed_girl, i cant just give up on her like that! its just not in me. and i tried getting her attention with another girl already,
    (really bad idea!!!... dont ask why.....)

    and a counselor might just do the job you guys are doing right now, lol

    i would do anything,anything to gt her to notice me!!!

    and thx for the help you guys, i really apreciate it.

     
    Old 08-27-2004, 05:27 AM   #5
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    Quote:
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    i would do anything,anything to gt her to notice me!!!

    You have allready done that but she doesn't get the point. You both are shy and nothing will happen unless someone makes the move. The only person to do that is you because she probably has no idea what you are doing. You have 2 choices; either be shy or go get the girl you want.

     
    Old 08-27-2004, 06:01 AM   #6
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    You want to know how my husband and I got together? I will tell you anyway.

    He is a year older than me. Someone from his class told me that a teacher needed to see me in the teacher's loungs. So, in I went. There were about 4-5 seniors sitting in there (I was a junior) and he asked me to prom. First time either of us had ever talked to each other.

    I know why you won't talk to her. I bet you have a fear of rejection/failure. We all do. Just go out and do it. If she says no, it isn't the worst thing in the world. If she doesn't like you for who you are now, you shouldn't mold yourself into someone that will catch her interest. The best you is the true you!

     
    Old 08-27-2004, 06:38 AM   #7
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    I think you answered your own question...
    Girls dont like desperation in a guy...its freightening.
    Sure, you've liked this girl for awhile.....but mate, ask her out already.
    Its definately crossed the line...if you have done all those things for her but she doesnt notice you...its because shes shy.

    YOU need to make the first move if you want her to be with you.
    If she says no, it'll be heartbreaking, but you might get your life back!

    Just be bold and ask her out.

    What also worries me is that you have written her so many letters yet she hasnt replied to most of them.... no more letters!
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    Old 08-27-2004, 06:42 AM   #8
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    Quote:
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    You want to know how my husband and I got together? I will tell you anyway.

    He is a year older than me. Someone from his class told me that a teacher needed to see me in the teacher's loungs. So, in I went. There were about 4-5 seniors sitting in there (I was a junior) and he asked me to prom. First time either of us had ever talked to each other.


    Thats is so sweet of him to do that And its a good thing he did that or you both may not be together today as husband and wife.

     
    Old 08-27-2004, 12:02 PM   #9
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    but im just so afraid that she will reject me and brake my aking, breaky, hearth. and then i would kill my self!!!


    you are going to hear it all over the news,
    "16 year old teenager commits suicide after rejected by a girl in highschool"

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    Old 08-27-2004, 12:07 PM   #10
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    Look you keep mentioning suicide and which not the key answer for one girl. There are millions of women and girls on this planet to choose from and 20 yrs down the rd when you are happily married you will laugh at this.

     
    Old 08-27-2004, 12:14 PM   #11
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    whats your final statement?
    what should i definetly do?

     
    Old 08-27-2004, 12:22 PM   #12
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    Ask Her Out!!!

     
    Old 08-27-2004, 12:27 PM   #13
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    Quote:
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    whats your final statement?
    what should i definetly do?

    My final statement is move on if you are going to think like this. If you are very serious then you wouldn't be talking this domb. Get serious and ask the girl out. If you dont then you lose out....

     
    Old 08-27-2004, 12:38 PM   #14
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    so its final then, this monday, this monday i talk to her!!
    one lil' problem though, i dont have a period or a class with her!!
    the only time i get to see her is when the changes of classes by the hallways!

    i cant talk to her and be rejected right in front of all those plp!! and i cant tell her to meet me somewhere else!! because she is always busy!!
    she dosent even eat lunch because of her shyness!!

    what should i do?

     
    Old 08-27-2004, 12:44 PM   #15
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    Re: the hottest girl in school!! PLS IM DESPERATE!!

    What should you do???

    Easy....when you see her alone or at her locker make the move when she is alone. If she is with people then ask her if you both can talk alone. When you talk to her tell her that you like to take her out sometime for pizza or a movie and you want her number.

     
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