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    Old 09-03-2004, 09:39 PM   #1
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    flat chested..sjfsd

    okay GUYS, would you date a girl even though she has a flat chest..i mean really flat??? does it really matter?!
    because i am really flat chested but not a lot of people know because i have thick padded bras. and im not confident yet to wear normal bras. i have a lot of guy friends..and they always tell me their dream girl would HAVE to have big breats. ughh jerks.

     
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    Old 09-03-2004, 09:49 PM   #2
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    Re: flat chested..sjfsd

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    okay GUYS, would you date a girl even though she has a flat chest..i mean really flat??? does it really matter?!
    because i am really flat chested but not a lot of people know because i have thick padded bras. and im not confident yet to wear normal bras. i have a lot of guy friends..and they always tell me their dream girl would HAVE to have big breats. ughh jerks.

    (I'm following you all over the board tonight! Sorry - it's that maternal instinct in me.)

    Well, the first thing any adult is going to tell you is that some pimply faced H.S. geek who is only interested in big **** isn't someone you want to be with anyway. Yeah, I know, doesn't help right now.

    Then, I'll go back to the growth thing, and think your body is just not done maturing! Who knows what you might end up with in a year, and just pray you don't end up like me! Mine were grossly large. In that situation, you never know what the boys are really hanging around for!

    And the final answer is - when the hormone laden boys you know figure out that Carmen Electra ain't gonna drop into their lap anytime soon, they'll either go hide in a closet, or make the most of the friendships they have.

    Sorry to sound like Ann Landers. But I've been there. In retrospect, there's no reason to even START worrying about men until you're 30.

     
    Old 09-03-2004, 10:06 PM   #3
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    yeah pretty understandable about the age,
    but i think my boobs have stopped growing.wait i dont even have ne boobs

     
    Old 09-04-2004, 06:42 AM   #4
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    Dont worry, youll grow more in the coming years.And big breasts arent all that.There was once a woman on tv with HUGE breasts, and she was ugly as sin.Big breasts dont make a person better or worse.

     
    Old 09-04-2004, 08:39 AM   #5
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    Tiffany, I used to wear double padded bras from sophomore yr up to senior yr [YES, even during summer], not only because I wanted bigger breasts, but because I felt or thought I felt confident with bigger breasts. Then it just hit me. I am the way I am, and I have to learn to love my body....because seriously, EVERYone is bound to have some sort of insecurity with themselves...even the person who you think has everything and is perfect. Anyways, I started to feel awkward and not myself and almost unhappy and insecure with my padded bras.....because it was not ME! So I started to wear thin bras, and now I have learnt that people will like you because of who you are, not because you have a chest. Many girls with big breasts wish they had smaller ones and vice versa so my point is...be happy with yourself.
    What do you think of Calista Flockhart, Portia De Rossi, Naomi Campbell, Kate Moss, Cameron Diaz, Kate Hudson, Grace Kelly and Audrey Hepburn? If you were a guy, wouldn't you go head over heels in love with them?!
    I used to think that a guy would never date me because of this problem, but this the issue is not the guy, it was ME. Ever since I have cared more for myself, and learn to accept my body, and yes become more confident, guys have been coming around more often! You have other beautiful things in you that are more important that I bet some other people don't have! Guys come and go. You have yourself to count on though, so be happy =)

     
    Old 09-04-2004, 10:44 AM   #6
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    who cares if you have a flat chest?? most girls with big breasts would LOVE to be in your shoes. think of all the back-aches and soreness that comes with larger breasts! look at paris hilton, shes flat and she used to wear padded bras all the time and now she doesnt and people still love her....my point is you cant ask others to accept you if you cant accept yourself right? so throw away all your padded bras and rejoyce in the fact you can wear a cute halter top without worrying if your grandma bra is gonna show lol

     
    Old 09-04-2004, 05:26 PM   #7
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    Re: flat chested..sjfsd

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by tiffany714
    okay GUYS, would you date a girl even though she has a flat chest..i mean really flat??? does it really matter?!
    because i am really flat chested but not a lot of people know because i have thick padded bras. and im not confident yet to wear normal bras. i have a lot of guy friends..and they always tell me their dream girl would HAVE to have big breats. ughh jerks.
    no, breast size doesn't matter much at all, atleast to most of us. You have nothing to worry about.

     
    Old 09-04-2004, 09:46 PM   #8
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    my current g/f is kinda chunky and has a nice chest but doesn't have as nice a face...my last girlfriend was skinny, but flat, but she (i thought) had a better face...i guess i'm more into face than boobs, and i think skinnier girls have prettier faces than heavier ones...i dunno...you might think it's dumb...just my opinion.

     
    Old 09-05-2004, 10:57 AM   #9
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    Re: flat chested..sjfsd

    Almost No one is the Hollywood image of males or females.

    Learn to accept yourself as you are & others will also.

    Many women are flat, small, & up to huge. Many do not grow any sizeable breasts until their twenties & some never do.

    Many Males have large breasts naturally the same as may Females have flat or small breasts.

    Everyone has to learn that it is not the size of the breasts that matters, it is the whole person, mental as well as physical that is important.

    After you accept yourself you will find a partner that will accept you, forget the Hollywood image.

    I did, I am a male with size "B" on the left & size "C" on the right.

    I am married with children.

    Good luck

     
    Old 09-05-2004, 03:03 PM   #10
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    A second remote thought. I have Klienfelters Mosaic that causes me to have extra a few female chromosomes. I have to use testosterone supplements.

    There is a female conditions that is called Turners Syndrome that gives the Females some male chromosomes. They have to use estrogen supplements.

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    Old 09-06-2004, 12:41 PM   #11
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    Re: flat chested..sjfsd

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    okay GUYS, would you date a girl even though she has a flat chest..i mean really flat??? does it really matter?!
    because i am really flat chested but not a lot of people know because i have thick padded bras. and im not confident yet to wear normal bras. i have a lot of guy friends..and they always tell me their dream girl would HAVE to have big breats. ughh jerks.

    Yes i would date a girl that was "Flat Chested." That wouldn't matter to me. As long as they were a nice person, with a good attitude it wouldn't matter. I currently like a girl that is also "Flat Chested." i guess you could say. Don't worry about it, you might grow some, and if you don't, there are still plenty of guys that don't mind women without breasts, or extremely large breasts.

     
    Old 09-06-2004, 04:07 PM   #12
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    im 16, and im one of the coolest kid in high school ,i have dated a lot of girls in my life with medium breasts and they are scare to show the real body too, but i have give them confidence.

    i would love to go out in a date with a flat chested girl like you , i dont care that much about giant breasts,
    infact, big chested girls gives me the creeps!!

    just be yourself.
    be proud of your body.
    because it will be with you the rest of your life.

    in one word (actually 3..xD) : i like you!!

    Last edited by musashiden; 09-06-2004 at 04:08 PM.

     
    Old 09-07-2004, 12:32 AM   #13
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    The size of breasts is entirely overrated. I blame the ads where women have... umm... "honkers" the size of watermellons. Your personality matters most. Not all men are shallow.

    JM

     
    Old 09-08-2004, 04:30 PM   #14
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    Look girl....im about to turn 20 and i know middle schoolers with a bigger bust than me~
    You will learn from experience that for the most part, guys liking chests is just an immature phase. When they are young they like them but when they actually grow up they end up loosing interest (yes, there will always be some that LOVE them). Just think about how a 11 year old boy with DIE to take a peak at his dad's pornography magazine to see some, but a grown man could care less(they are ineterested in much more important things than two glands to feed babies with). The guys that do care that much about your cup size, arent worth going out with so consider it a gift because it works like a filter for the guys you dont want! When you get older it wont bother you as much, i promise!........When i think about it now, im SOOOO glad i dont have big ones!!!
    Ive had guys fight over me and never had a problem getting a bf and ive asked many many times if my small size bothered them. Youll be surprised how many compliments you will get for your small cups!

    It changes and there ARE pluses with small chests, here are some things ive heard straight from different males mouths-
    "they are nice, hand sized"
    "Cup size doesnt matter because breasts dont even have a purpose for me"
    "i like smaller ones because they wont sag when they are older"
    "sorry, i grew out of my breast stage when i was 15"
    "i like smaller ones because they feel firmer, which is sexy"
    "im glad they arent huge because i dont want you getting other horny guys' attention, esp when im not around"
    "i like smaller ones because they dont have stretch marks"
    "they are nicely in porportion to your body"
    "i like smaller ones because they dont get in the way when we make love"
    "i could care less, as long as you have a nice ___favorite part__(butt, or legs...etc)"

    And if that doesnt help...consider that my mother was barely a B cup when she graduated from high school, and is now a double D and wants a reduction youve got pleanty of time to grow. Just make sure you have an adequate diet

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    Old 09-08-2004, 10:39 PM   #15
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    Jeeeeeeeeeez...No need to diss the gals with the curves.J-Lo and Beyonce seem to get by pretty good with theirs.Yeah it sucks to look like a boy from the front but thats no need to be rude.

     
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