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    Old 10-23-2004, 05:12 AM   #1
    art vandelay
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    I think I have a little bit of a crush on one of my teachers. I'm 17, a junior in high school. She is young, good looking, sweet and down to earth. Plus, she's a baseball fan. I spent like half an hour talking to her about baseball as if I were talking to one of my buddies. Anyway, is this bizarre? I don't really think I'm interested in actually dating her, just...I don't know... being friends with her.

     
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    Old 10-23-2004, 05:22 AM   #2
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    Re: Crush, on a teacher

    No, like you said, your not interested in dating her so it's fine. Even if you did have fantacy's about her it would be fine also, assuming no feelings are acted on (just the friendship ones) it's all ok.

     
    Old 10-23-2004, 06:32 AM   #3
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    Crushes on teachers are fine and cute but remember that you never want to risk anything and take it to another level. I know you connect well but if she was willing to go out with you wait till your 18 or out of school.

     
    Old 12-22-2004, 04:12 AM   #4
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    Re: Crush, on a teacher

    I think almost everyone has a crush on a teacher once in their life time. However, if you just want to be friends with her, there is nothing wrong with that. In fact I still meet one of my old teachers for coffee every other weekend. Remember, that nothing can come of any other feelings until you graduate high school or you turn 18. I think it is against the law to have a 'relationship' with your teacher, but there is nothing with being friends.

     
    Old 12-22-2004, 09:56 AM   #5
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    Re: Crush, on a teacher

    I always had crushes on my teachers....

     
    Old 12-27-2004, 12:30 PM   #6
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    It's totally fine to have a crush on her as long as you don't act on it. I had the biggest crush on my history teacher in highschool, it worked out great because I wanted to look smart infront of him, so I studied extra hard.

     
    Old 12-27-2004, 12:40 PM   #7
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    Re: Crush, on a teacher

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    I think it is against the law to have a 'relationship' with your teacher, but there is nothing with being friends.
    The only way it is against the law is if the student is a minor, because of a minor makes sexual contact with an adult teacher, the teacher can be arrested for rape.

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    But yeahh...besides that, there is nothing wrong with having a crush on a teacher. And being friends with one is just fine; I'm friends with my art teacher. There are just some teachers who are drop dead gorgeous, and you may wonder, "Why is this person teaching? Why are they not the star of some X-rated film?"

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    So don't worry too much over it; it's okay.

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    Old 12-29-2004, 06:50 PM   #8
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    Like someone said above I think everyone has had a crush on a teacher at one point in time. It's perfectly normal.
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    Old 12-30-2004, 07:41 AM   #9
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    yea u can keep it at the friend level but anything else could get u kicked out and her fired wait till u go to college and then go bak and she if shes still teaching there then u will have a much better chance not being a student at that skool

     
    Old 12-30-2004, 09:26 AM   #10
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    Yeah.. it's totally normal.. in fact a crush on one of my prof's was the only thing that kept me going to the class!

     
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