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Old 08-06-2012, 10:10 PM   #1
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scarlet14 HB User
I can't make up my mind.

I am so stressed. I have to make a life changing decision that has been weighing down on me for quite some time now. I a teenager and living with my father and older brother. I currently have no mother figures to talk to, other than my mother but she lives half way across the country, literally. I only have a few friends and I can't talk to them about my situation because if word gets out, my father would freak. Anyways my problem is, I want to live with my mother but if I move, I would be changing my lie dramatically and I don't know if I'm ready for a change like that in my life right now.
Any advise?

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Old 08-09-2012, 07:21 PM   #2
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Re: I can't make up my mind.

I don't think anybody can make up your mind for you. You need to talk to your parents about this and just try to calm down and think things through. Maybe make a list of the things that would change, to see if you're really up for something like that. It may sound silly, but it will act as a reality check. Not only that, but it may clear your head a little. Another silly sounding idea may be a pros and cons list. As trivial as that is, if there's a lot of things you're worried about, it will show. Maybe ask if you can spend a week or so with your mom to see how you like things there. It really just comes down to what you think is going to be best for yourself.

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