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Old 10-04-2008, 01:03 AM   #1
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My TMJ & Pregnancy Story...

I wanted to share this with any of you who have disabling TMJ as I do. Because the disease has robbed me of a lot of lifes pleasures (not that Im complaining I still walk and see and dance) but for the longest time I could not even have a relationship. It was too awkward, trying to kiss, trying to eat out, the bed room full of pills and TMJ medical devices (tens units therabites)...and PILLS everywhere. My TMJ disks were displaced in 2002 from being intubated for a 4 hour spine surgery. Before that I ate and talked, smiled all so carefree i admit like 99% of people I took it for granted. Back to my point...after suffering with TMJ - which lead to inner ear disease for me for 2 years I gave up on the idea of ever having children. at this point I was nearing 30. I knew I could never get married because I would never ask someone I loved to make the kind of sacrifices I had to make in everyday living, or have them look the other way while I was in pain. Then last year on Valentines day a miracle happened. I got pregnant. My first thought was 'Im not healthy enough to carry this baby for 9 months" I wouldnt be able to get the TMJ shots, take the pills...all the things we do just trying to keep our poor mouths comfortable. I thought I wouldnt be able to eat a balanced enough diet to give the baby nutrition (since we can't chew many many things!) My doctor told me with enough love I would find a way. Im a month away from delivery. And he was right. There were mornings in the beginning that I would scream in pain on the bathroom floor after throwing up because the thrusting opening of my jaw made the joints burn like they were on fire. There were days I laid in bed on heating pads or ice packs ALL DAY and cried from the pain. I wanted a shot or a vicodin a soma....the Tyenol they say you can use is like tic tacs to a person with the pain in your face so bad it hurts to smile. You hope the person at the grocery store isn't nice to you so you don't have to smile not like me! Anyways Im almost done. I messed up a few times and taken some prescribed medications with the blessing of my doctor. He knows my history with pain and dizziness. I pray every night nothing happens to my baby from my meds, I feel so guilty. But my doctor was right if you have a goal in sight and family and friends who support you and help bring you those ice packs in the night you can have a baby. And guess what...I had an ultrasound the other day. I saw my baby yawn!! She yawned so perfectly her little jaw worked just fine. It made me cry Its almost like Im getting a second change to appreciate the little things like yawning with out clicking, smiling and laughing and chewing without pain. My biggest wish is that my daughter never has TMJ. But women with can have a baby!

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Old 10-05-2008, 12:41 AM   #2
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Your post brought tears to me eyes, i'm so happy for you!i was hoping you'd post again .. i always read your posts...

How are you feeling now? Your pain sounded excruciating.. your tmj which lead to inner ear disease.. what does that mean ? Did you get earaches all the time .. i have them but they last a split second then leave but they are so so so bad and annoying.. i hate the jaw pain... Was your tmj worse while pregnant or better , i heard conflicting things like it plays up and then i heard it gets better during pregnancy...

How are you now...??? I'm curious to know about your ear disease??

See my tmj affects my jaw with pain and earaches... is that what you went through as well or was yours more severe? You said you made everyday sacrifices? How was your tmj caused? Displaced Discs?

God Bless and congratulations again Please write back ..

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