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Re: Sleepy husband!!!

Re: Sleepy husband!!!

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Posted by KerryAngel on July 18, 2000 at 16:12:11:

In Reply to: Re: Sleepy husband!!! posted by Bobby on June 16, 2000 at 19:05:42:

: 4pm - 2am 5 days a week?? Hell I would sleep my ass off everytime I could get the chance too!!

: Shouldnt be so hard on him, maybe if he changed jobs or somthing

: : My husband is a bartender who works from 4pm-2am 5 days a week. We have a baby whom I would love for him to interact with more often, but when he is awake he just lays down and watches TV or falls asleep again. He says that it feels good to sleep. We have a great relationship so I don't think he is trying to ignore us but it is causing some major resentment that he gets so much sleep and I don't. Any suggestions on how to get husband to WAKE UP would be grateful!

Hi Alicia,
I can really understand why he is sleeping so much with the kind of work and hours he is doing, but I know how you must be feeling too, its not great when our men tend to love bed and/or Tv when we need their attention for a while. I would suggest you make a date with him through the week when you both can spend sometime together (without any interruptions and in mutual consent!)
that's if he will agree to this and then have a real heart to heart talk about your feelings and see if there is any way that he can meet you half way on this with some quality time together - or, if possible, change jobs!!!
If he is really sleeping abnormally then ask him if he would go for a check up at the doctors just for your peace of mind!!
Wish I could help more but thats all I can think of!!

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