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Re: I need some good advice, please.

Re: I need some good advice, please.

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Posted by lisa on November 11, 2000 at 00:41:42:

In Reply to: I need some good advice, please. posted by Broken heart on November 09, 2000 at 21:31:15:

: Hello, I'm not sure if this is the right place or message board to address this question and problem, but it does cause me to be very depressed so here goes.....I'm 19 years old/female and have been in only two relationships so far. Both relationships were serious the first lasting a year and the second 6 months. My problem is..... I practically die of a broken heart after any relationship ends. I find that I get really attached and fall in love quickly. When both of these relationships ended it was long and dragged out and by the time it was
: finally over we weren't on good terms had a lot of hurt feelings and don't even speak. Anyway, because of being with my ex boyfriend I didn't have many friends because we spent a lot of time together and going from one serious relationship to another made things worse now that I'm single. I'm totally lost, I'm not outgoing, very shy, and dating? what dating? I haven't been dating. I am afraid to get involved with guys because I'm sick of being hurt and left with a broken heart in the end. I think part of my problem is I need to be confident with myself and not depend on being in love with someone all the time.
: Ok, sorry for rambling on and maybe this does not even make sense but I need advice. How do I stop wanting to "love" someone and just concentrate on dating? How can I meet new people and make friends being such a shy and quiet person that I am, and last how can I stop being afraid of being alone? That is also part of the problem. Any Ideas?

: Thanks
I know how you feel I only like two guys in my life. One I was in a serious relationshiiip that ended in OCt of this year Is like my life was all about him I gave up my friends everything for him and now I don't have no more friends and I am heart broken he was my first. Since I wake up to I go to sleep he is always on my mind. I can't seem to get him off me If you find a way please let me know?

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