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Posted by observer on December 02, 2000 at 11:24:24:

In Reply to: Sorry I've BECOME so repulsive posted by Tired on November 21, 2000 at 22:58:06:

I'm tired too...of the whining and blaming.

I think you like all the attention, and girls feeling sorry for you and saying they like you, even though they have no clue who you are. You like blaming everyone but yourself, you like getting negative attention, you like being angry.
I don't care when you decided to be like you are or how much you used to not be this way.

You like being are the one that doesn't get it....NOBODY owes anyone else a relationship. Respect is earned, not owed. Love is chosen to be given, not owed. Too bad if some of us don't get relationships with others.
Sheesh, others are not the measurement of who we are. They have an effect, but they don't "make" us who/what we are...our own attitude and choices decides that. You are what you are like because of who YOU ARE, and what YOU choose to think.

If no one loves you, try loving yourself. No one outside us can give anyone enough love to make up for our own lack of self-respect.

I don't believe you want anything but to get a reaction from the readers here. And I predict you will like either being angry at me/what I said, or will like blaming me why you feel worse than ever.

But I reject any responsibility for where you choose to go in your mind.
I do hope you choose forgiveness of both others and yourself, and that you get yourself back on track.

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