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Hi, I'm new here and I have a question I'll try not to make very long..my husband of 24 years age 42 has been having erection prob. for 3 1/2 years...started out just now and then and now if we don't have sex as soon as he is the even the littlest aroused he looses it...even in the middle of things...I am beyond frustated...he has never had this problem in all of our years together..now I constantly feel rejected every time it happens and he feels embarrased...he had his testerone checked and it was fine..he even cried and says it's him and not me..he can masterbate sometimes being semi-hard--porn doesn't even arouse him..doc said it was stress..tried viagra and cialis didn't work...no erection at night or morning..if stress wouldn't he have erections when he was asleep and relaxed??????? any help...I have begged him to go to the doc he say he will but he never makes any effort ...I have told I am to the point of having an affair and he's scared I will and I don't want to..I just miss my husband and the way he used to be..he doesn't even pay attention to me out of bed...He never wants to shower or take a bath with me anymore and there's not look of desire in his eyes any more...I put on a nightie and stood in front of him and ask him to come to bed all he said was thats nice..where'd you get that and watched a ballgame for 40 minutes and then came to bed...I may not be a super model...but damn, I'm also not a dog faced mutt either...I can't even touch him unless he gives me the okay..this just isn't a normal marriage...he had hodgkins lymphoma in 1996 but has had not effects from that he was fine until June 2001...someone help!!!!!!!!
has he had any injury down there? Sometimes just riding a bike and hitting a small bump may do some damage and it may not be immediately troubling. if Viagra or cialis didn't work, I'm thinking more of a blood flow problem such as damaged veins, or low blood pressure. Has anything been checked out by a urologist?
I would agree that if Viagra or Cialis did not work that he must have a blood flow problem to the penis. I am 66 and take Viagra and have no problem getting an erection so I know that Viagra does work.

Sometimes the first sign of problems with the arteries and with eventual heart problems is lack of blood flow to the penis because the small arteries to the penis are clogged with plaque. Neither you or him should settle for this problem. He should seek help with a doctor and see if you can find out the problem. Chelation might help as it supposedly cleans out the arteries. You would have to find a doctor who does chelation, and not many do. It is expensive, and he would probably need about 30 treatments at about $100 each. Good luck. Please seek help for the problem as it may be a sign of a worse problem coming. And please don't have an affair; just help and support your husband at this time. He needs it.
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Hi, I'm new here and I have a question I'll try not to make very long..my husband of 24 years age 42 has been having erection prob. for 3 1/2 years...started out just now and then and now if we don't have sex as soon as he is the even the littlest aroused he looses it...even in the middle of things...I am beyond frustated...he has never had this problem in all of our years together..now I constantly feel rejected every time it happens and he feels embarrased...he had his testerone checked and it was fine..he even cried and says it's him and not me..he can masterbate sometimes being semi-hard--porn doesn't even arouse him..doc said it was stress..tried viagra and cialis didn't work...no erection at night or morning..if stress wouldn't he have erections when he was asleep and relaxed??????? any help...I have begged him to go to the doc he say he will but he never makes any effort ...I have told I am to the point of having an affair and he's scared I will and I don't want to..I just miss my husband and the way he used to be..he doesn't even pay attention to me out of bed...He never wants to shower or take a bath with me anymore and there's not look of desire in his eyes any more...I put on a nightie and stood in front of him and ask him to come to bed all he said was thats nice..where'd you get that and watched a ballgame for 40 minutes and then came to bed...I may not be a super model...but damn, I'm also not a dog faced mutt either...I can't even touch him unless he gives me the okay..this just isn't a normal marriage...he had hodgkins lymphoma in 1996 but has had not effects from that he was fine until June 2001...someone help!!!!!!!!

I f your talking about having an affair, then he is better off without you !! No offence, but your not worth it !!