I agree that there is a big difference between having PMS (being overly emotional, crying a lot, snapping for no reason) and having PMDD. PMDD is like having a multiple personality disorder and there's no such thing as "it's just mind over matter" because you are not in control at all. And that second personality is unpredictable, wild and dangerous to others.
I'm glad you are investigating this now because as bad as it can be for relationships, it's 100 times worse when it comes to parenting. Can you imagine letting a raving lunatic in your house to freely abuse your children? Of course not. But that's what happens every month if you have PMDD and don't have it controlled.
For my kids' sake, I went to therapy AND started an anti-depressant. It was like a miracle. I resisted it for a long time because I didn't want to be "one of those people on Prozac" but yknow what? Who cares what anyone thinks? You have to take care of yourself and take care of these little children that depend on you.
I only wish I had been as responsible as you are and looked for a solution before I had children. If you take charge now, you'll be a great mom later. :D
I'm glad you are investigating this now because as bad as it can be for relationships, it's 100 times worse when it comes to parenting. Can you imagine letting a raving lunatic in your house to freely abuse your children? Of course not. But that's what happens every month if you have PMDD and don't have it controlled.
For my kids' sake, I went to therapy AND started an anti-depressant. It was like a miracle. I resisted it for a long time because I didn't want to be "one of those people on Prozac" but yknow what? Who cares what anyone thinks? You have to take care of yourself and take care of these little children that depend on you.
I only wish I had been as responsible as you are and looked for a solution before I had children. If you take charge now, you'll be a great mom later. :D