I had really bad aniety after my first born, and I am the most laid back person usually. It is normal, I promise it also gets butter. BUT, if you have feelings of resentment or thoughts of harming your baby or yourself, see a doctor. I suffered from severe mood swings for a while after my son, and then I saw my doctor and he perscribed some low-dose prozac and it evened out my moods. You don't have to suffer, don't try to 'tough it out'. I will keep checking back on this thread if you want to talk, I have had 2 babies and have suffered from depression for a decade now. Take care of yourself, we're all in this together.