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Posted by Steph on March 17, 2000 at 11:52:50:

In Reply to: SCARED TEEN! PLEASE HELP posted by scared on March 15, 2000 at 20:27:58:

I really think the baby is your boyfriends. The numbers don't add up to be the others. BUT are you ready to get married to your boyfriend. I got pregnant when I was 17 and had my daughter when I was eighteen. The father and I are engaged but not married. I don't want to get married until I know for sure he is the one i really want. After we were young. You don't want to get married now and be divoreced by the age of 21. It's OK if you don't get married right away. So do what you want to do and not your parents. I am perfectly happy in a committed relationship with my fiance. We feel married but we just aren't legally. And just because you do love your boyfriend and have a baby with him doesn't obligate you to marry him. Do what is best for you.

Also if you are feeling this guilty about the other guy then tell him. It will only get worse. It is better to tell them sooner or later. I told my fiancee some secrets of mine and because he loves me we worked them out.

And another thing, get a paternity test anyways. Not because you don''t think your boyfriend is the baby's father. It is so that if by any chance down the road that you guys don't work out and have to break up he can't deny that he is the father. It is a saftey precaution for you that is all.
: Im an 18 year old teen and now Im pregnant. My boyfriend and i are getting married soon (our families pushed it)and now that i realize im going to spend the rest of my life with this guy i feel a guilty concience.I'm young and never thought Id have a baby and be in this position. According to my doctor I got pregnant at the end of November. Well in mid December I had slept with someone else. I used protection with this other person of course because I'm really scared of diseases since my boyfriend and I got tested and everything was negative and I wouldn't jeapordize his health. Now I have this little question in my head WHAT IF my boyfriends not the father??? This might be my guilt but its really haunting me. My boyfriend and I always have unprotected sex and i did it once with a another with protection.Im sure the condom didn't break. Am I being paranoid? Im a terrible person I know.
: I was young and stupid. WHat should I do now? If this gets out itll destroy everything. Do you think it's my guilt or base on facts I have something to be worried about? Please help me! If you believe there is a chance my boyfriend may not be the father tell me because if there is a chance...then I know I cant decieve him.

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