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should i just give it up?

should i just give it up?

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Posted by Christy on June 17, 2000 at 12:27:47:

Hi everyone. I've been off the pill for 5 months. My last period was April 30 and hasn't been back since. Although I don't have any pg symptoms, I made an appt. w/ my ob/gyn for next Thurs. so I guess I will find out then. We never "agreed" that I would go off the pill, but I told him I was and he said okay that there was nothing he could do about it. I said we could use condoms if he wasn't sure if he was ready. I'm feeling a bit uneasy about this whole situation. I can't help but feel like I'm pushing this whole thing on my husband. He knows I'm off the pill but refuses to wear condoms (he hates them). He says "if it happens, it happens" and he'll deal with it. But I know that he's not sure if he's ready. He doesn't understand why I won't go back on the pill. I told him cuz when he says he's ready, I will be too. I mean I won't have to deal w/ months of charting and wondering if I'm ovulating. Look at me now! It's been 5 months and I still haven't gotten pg! So do you think I should go back on the pill just for his sake, or is it out of my hands since he knows he could wear a condom (this is assuming I'm not pg already)? I can't help but second-guess myself. I want a baby so badly but I don't know whether I should just give this all up and quit worrying about how he's going to react if I got pg! What do you think? Sorry this is so lengthy.

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