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Re: 14, pregnant, and very scared HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re: 14, pregnant, and very scared HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by Elaine on August 25, 2000 at 17:52:52:

In Reply to: 14, pregnant, and very scared HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! posted by Jaylene on August 24, 2000 at 17:56:37:

: Hi, I am 14 years old and I am 1 week late on my period. I have a boyfriend and we usually use protection but this time we didn't and I think I am pregnant. I am so scared but at the same time happy. WHat should I do and how can I tell my mom and dad? My boyfriend is 18 and I have a feling that my parents will but him in jail. I really need help. please help me. My boyfriend knows and he wants me to keep it. PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!
: Sincerly,
: Jaylene

First of all, you have to have it confirmed by using a home pregnancy kit (twice). If you are indeed pregnant, you will have to tell your parents about it. If you are scared of what their reaction might be, ask a trusted relative or someone you trust (an adult, of course) to advise you on these matters. They will be there for you while your parents are cooling down and getting a grip with events.
As far as your boyfriend goes, well... you are very young and having a baby is a HUGE responsibility. But - your parents should be your best advisors in this situation. (I hope you have a good relationship with them). If you run into big arguments and misunderstanding with your parents, then you will have to seek guidance from a trusted adult or relative. It is your life and you have to make the right decision.
As for you boyfriend possibly using you... you are very young to see things for what they really are but every situation is different and I hope this is not the case with the two of you. But from now on, you have to listen to your parents more, not him. Good luck.

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