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Re: Boyfriend wants me to have an abortion - I can't.

Re: Boyfriend wants me to have an abortion - I can't.

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Posted by Anonymouz on October 15, 2000 at 23:08:00:

In Reply to: Re: Boyfriend wants me to have an abortion - I can't. posted by connie on June 19, 2000 at 17:11:22:

: t got back from Florida and had a great week and were finally getting along like we used to and then I found out I was pregnant. About 5 weeks. He wants me to have an abortion because we are so unsettled in the relationship and we arent really together, etc. I cant - I did that when I was younger and it was horrible. He says I am being selfish by having it - I think it would be selfish to have an abortion so I wouldnt have to change my life at all. I dont know what to do. I cant tell my family because we arent close.

: hi i had abotion about a year ago because my boyfriend threatened to leave me and ill advice you dont do it i regret it so bad i never stop thinking about it and now i want a baby so bad i feel like i lost a part of me..Dont do it

:Hello! I had an abortion too about a year ago... I had to do it coz it was like the whole world fell apart for me... My parents was really mad at me and dumped me, my relationship with my boyfriend then wasn't working... Well, before I got pregnant, he promised me the world, like he's gonna be there for me through thick and thin... but when he got me pregnant, he suddenly changed! He certainly screwed up! He lost his sense of responsibility and left me hanging on... Of course, at first I didn't wanna terminate the baby... but due to the constant talk of my ex-boyfriend (yeah, we're totally OVER!!! He's such a loser eh!), he got me into it... Such decision was a pain in the neck for me, believe me on that one... It's the hardest decision I've ever made in my entire life... I hated that guy so much coz he forced me to do such a thingie, and somehow hated myself too coz I gave him the chance to control my life at that moment!! But like they say, regrets always comes late.... So, if you're pregnant and doesn't know what you wanna do, just give yourself a chance to think things a hundred times before doing anything that you'll resent the rest of your life... That decision shouldn't be because your boyfriend or your parents want you to do it, it should come from you! Just make sure that you're willing to take anything on your own for the sake of your baby or maybe for your own sake without considering other things!!!

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